Sunday, April 29, 2012

We Are Women Speech - Boise Rally 4-28-2012



      My name is Toni Sutton, I am a third-generation Idahoan, and until last year, had never attended a protest or rally of any kind. This is the third rally I've spoken at this year. I always wondered if there was anything that I felt passionately enough about to even attend a protest. Thanks to the actions of the extremists of the Republican party, I never found the level of outrage I would need to attend a rally—we've gone FAR beyond that.
      It wasn't until 1965 that the Comstock bans against contraception for married women were struck down by the Supreme Court, and it wasn't until 1972 that the courts extended contraception rights to nonmarried women. Roe v. Wade was decided in 1973, finally giving women the right to control their own bodies. As I was born in 1970, that means that I had more legal control over my own body at the age of 3 than I have now. It also means that, except for the few women my age entering menopause early, we haven't even had ONE generation of women who didn't have to fight for the right to make our own reproductive choices. Not even ONE. In the past 2 months, women have become sluts for taking birth control pills daily—as they're actually supposed to be taken—and Republican legislators in Idaho as well as nation-wide have declared that my taking birth control pills for a medical condition, which is only partially covered by the health insurance I pay $350 a month to even have—might somehow violate the religious or moral beliefs of a man whom I have never even MET who happens to own the company that employs my husband, so it should be his right to dictate whether or not my prescription is covered, not mine. Well then I am here today to represent my slut Mother, slut Mother-in-Law, slut sisters-in-laws, slut aunts, and all my slut friends to tell the GOP, if birth control pills violate your religious or moral beliefs, DON'T TAKE THEM. I am fully willing to respect anyone's religious beliefs, but only when they pertain to the choices that person makes. Ancestors on both sides of my family fled TO America to escape having religious beliefs they did not share forced upon them. If they were willing to give up everything they owned and everyone they ever knew to come here to build a new life based on their OWN convictions and beliefs, you had better believe that their great-great grand-daughter will NOT accept anything less. My PERSONAL religious and moral beliefs are that it is wrong for an elected official, whose health insurance is provided by taxpayer dollars, to stand up and call taxpayer-funded healthcare “socialism” when it helps others while keeping it for himself. As a taxpayer and the employer of EVERY elected official in Idaho, does my belief matter? It violates my moral and religious beliefs to have a political party that ran an admitted adulterer and general toad like Newt Gingrich tell me what is moral and “right.” Does my belief matter? With men like Gingrich around, why aren't we fighting the insurance coverage of VIAGRA instead of birth control? I certainly know which one I find offensive.
      The so-called "Pro-Life" movement has been chipping away at Roe Vs. Wade for years, and if it were really about the sanctity of life, I think many of us might understand their concerns. NO ONE is truly Pro-abortion: life is a very precious thing. But you are not "Pro-Life" if you refuse to teach sex-education in order to prevent unwanted pregnancies. You are not "Pro-Life" if you also strip away access to birth control. You are not “Pro-Life” when you restrict access to the “Morning After” pill, which keeps an egg from ever being fertilized and is in no way an abortion and is, in fact, one of the best methods for reducing the need FOR abortions. You are not "Pro-Life" if you attack institutions that provide low-cost prenatal care. You are not "Pro-Life" if you cut the programs that benefit that child once it is born. You are not "Pro-Life" if you ignore all the children that are affected by cuts to Health and Welfare which provides immunizations, child abuse and foster care services, mental health services, special needs programs, and adoption services. You are not "Pro-Life" when you cut 750 teachers who would have provided an education for that child. You are not "pro-life" when you refuse to participate in national health care programs without providing any state options. You are not "Pro-life" when you attack the rights of one-half the population to make our own decisions regarding our bodies. You may be "Pro-fetus," but you are NOT "Pro-Life."
      Like many of you here today, I have watched with horror and disbelief as hundreds and hundreds of bills targeted at women sweep the nation. Across our so-called “land of the free,” since March of 2011, Republicans have introduced 916 bills targeting women—restriction of birth control, forced ultrasounds, restrictions or elimination of sex education, and declaring single parenthood—the logical conclusion of blocking abortion, sex ed and birth control access—an automatic factor of child abuse. All of this while vilifying single mothers and working families that must rely on public assistance to even scrape by as “welfare queens.” Women are damned if we do, and damed if we don't. Women STILL earn less than men, without Obamacare our health insurance is more expensive than it is for men, we're feminazis if we choose not to HAVE children, sluts if we take birth control pills, child abusers if we end up as single parents, lazy if we have children without being able to afford them, and bad mothers if we hold down jobs AND have children in order to be able to afford them. Well, Republicans, how is this NOT a “War on Women?” Actions speak louder than words, and this is a full-out onslaught.
      Idaho was one of the first states to grant women the vote—more than a hundred years after it was given to men. Idaho was one of the states that ratified the Equal Rights Amendment in 1972. We weren't always like this—and in fact, I believe that few Idahoans of either party agree with the current extremism of the Republican Party. We have been promised that the group behind the mandatory ultrasound bill will be back next year, and I'm sure they will. If the Idaho Legislature passes this bill, it will truly show that nothing about the current Republican party is about small government or individual rights. You can't be for small government AND mandate unnecessary medical procedures. You can't say you are the party of individual rights and start dictating whether or not a woman can have access to birth control. Women are much more than just a uterus. We work. We pay taxes. We volunteer. We serve in the military. And look out Republican Party, because we also vote.

Tuesday, April 17, 2012

Squash Wars - 2012

Okay--everyone knows my struggles to grow squash.  It's rather legendary amongst my friends, relatives, and those who are now part of the "I-can't-buy-seeds-where-SHE-does" seed boycott.  Probably for good reason.  So, it's time to get my squash and cucumber seeds going in their little vinegar jug greenhouses, so it's time to decide:

Do I try--yet again--to get certain types of squash by planting the seeds for those particular squashes, or should I plant different squashes and hope that my regular games of squash roulette will produce the squash I WANT, rather than the ones I plant?

At least gardening for ME has a much bigger element of surprise than it probably does for regular gardeners.......................

Friday, April 13, 2012

I'm Ready To Talk About It Now

Have you ever just had one of THOSE weekends?  Well, we did last weekend........and since it's now Friday and I'm only just willing to talk about it, it was indeed a whopper.

I have recently been contracted as a political consultant for a campaign here, which is a very GOOD thing, but has really taken up my time in the last two weeks.  So, on top of the back issues, the garden is massively behind.  As is everything else.  In our best divide-and-conquer spirit, last weekend I settled down to do our taxes and Andy headed out to work on the garden.

I do not electronically file our taxes.  First, I spend enough time on computers.  Secondly, my laptop runs on Unix, so nothing is written for it, so I'm not sure if any of the programs would work anyway.  Thirdly, I think filing taxes is enough of an insult without having to pay for the filing or the software.  Our community library still always has forms, and I had picked some up a while ago, but stopped in Saturday to make sure I had everything I needed.  They were out of the 1040, but I got everything else.  Printing one form wouldn't kill me, or so I thought.

There had been a glitch on my laptop, and we had planned to reinstall everything to correct the problems.  Well, because our printer had recently had to be replaced, the new printer couldn't work with my computer until we went ahead with the install.  So, I went out to get Andy from the garden, and he got everything installed.  So far, so good..............except for the printer, which had to talk to the wireless router, which didn't want to be talked to.  A couple hours later, and it was time to print the forms on another computer so Andy could get back to gardening.  This was all fine and good, I settled down to work, then ran into a spot where the line information in the directions was wrong.  "Must be a typo or an early version," I thought.  Then the directions for the next line didn't line up.....which is when I finally realized that the directions that I'd grabbed were for the wrong forms, which wouldn't have been half as annoying if I had discovered this BEFORE the library closed, and wouldn't reopen again until Monday.  Never mind, I thought....I'll just download the directions from the IRS website.

When using UNIX and the open-source (free) software, there are constant free upgrades to the operating system and programs, but some have been debugged more than others.  We had opted to go for the newest version, even though the debugged version was coming out in 2 weeks.  Our rational was that I could live with 2 weeks of clunkiness to save me from having to learn two new systems in 2 weeks.  Normally, this works, but I can now verify that one of the bugs in the new system is the ability to crash the computer when opening a PDF file.  So, I did what I could, but had to put taxes on the back-burner for the weekend as we didn't have another option.

While I was having all the tax fun, Andy was trying to clean up the garden beds and get them ready to plant.  The ground was dry enough to till, so he got out the rototiller, added fertilizer to all the beds, and even was clearing out the spot where I wanted to plant potatoes, when......
the rototiller caught part of the little greenhouse and ate it.  This would be slightly more tragic if I had actually finished replacing that zipper, or if the cover didn't have all sorts of little rips and tears everywhere from the strong winds we get.  $90 for the greenhouse, $50 for replacement zipper............and we've never gotten to use the thing.  And I'd most likely have to replace the second zipper soon anyway.  At this point--probably both giddy with tiredness and ongoing frustration--we have opted to take it apart, pass the parts on to some friends of ours who also bought one of these and have had trouble with interior parts breaking, and we'll just build a solid one this fall.  We have such high winds that no plastic will last out here.  So, all those hours spent outside sewing that blasted zipper?  Pointless.  Live and learn, I guess..........and stock up on white chocolate martini ingredients.

I am happy to report that the plant I so carefully mulched last winter might have survived,
and I'm thinking it might turn out to be the tarragon plant.  Every year I'm just sure I'll remember these things.....and I never do.

The garlic has come up,
my lettuce-in-a-jug worked very well, and I have now seeded spinach and other types of lettuce around them, as well as 4 little broccoli seedlings.
Sunday I planted 8 additional "square feet," then started feeling sick, so ended up resting and feeling lousy the rest of the afternoon.  And THAT was how we spent last weekend.

REALLY lowers the bar for this one......................

Friday, April 6, 2012

This Slut Votes

A friend of mine designed these and they are now available from her Etsy shop:  http://www.etsy.com/listing/96255395/tshirts-with-meaning

$12 for sizes up to XL
$15 for largest sizes
includes shipping within the USA.


I've already worn mine twice.

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

One Down, 11 To Go!

One of my non-crafting "Twelve 12s" for the year was to get rid of 12 things.  This morning:
I sorted out TWENTY books from my library to donate.  TWENTY!!!  Okay, that's actually a really small percentage of my library, but all but 2 of these books have been with me a while, so they have survived more than a few book purges over the years and I am rather proud to have agreed to part with them.  A few examples,

2 books by motivational sales writer Tom Hopkins.  While in college, I sold Cutco knives and did reasonably well, but one of the things that happens when you're in tough, commission-only sales like that is that you are given (or go buy) every top sales book available to help increase your sales performance.  While there are some I liked, I now feel empowered enough to admit that I have always found Tom Hopkins an ego-enhanced ass.  There!  I said it.  I have TWO of the man's books, and I always wondered what was wrong with me because everyone else seemed to revere his books and I could never stand them.  Well NOW I am old enough to stand up and say "PHOOEY!" to his books and to him--out they go!!!

1 book by Dave Barry.  I always want to find Dave Barry funny, but just never seem to or not often enough to ever read more than a few pages in his book.  After 20+ years, I'm admitting I'll never read it.

Tuesdays With Morrie.  I learned a lot about ALS from this book, and as a friend of mine died from it not long after I read this, I thought it was helpful.  I still can't help finding Mitch Albom to be shallow and self-absorbed even at the end of the book.  It wasn't a bad book, but one reading was certainly enough for me.

Anastasia: The Riddle of Anna Anderson:  I really found this book to be interesting and pretty well done.  I admit, I hadn't ever bothered much with the "Anastasia" mythology/cult/whatever, but having found this book on a clearance table somewhere, I did find this book pretty fascinating.  I thought the author was pretty balanced and just tried to present the facts of Anna Anderson rather than the chest-pounding, I-am-right sort of treatment these subjects often get.  However, since the time this was written, DNA testing has proved that Anna Anderson was in no way related to the Romanovs, and I believe all the Romanov family bodies were found and identified, so I won't ever read this book again.

I still hope to get rid of more things we don't need, but it is nice--now that we're into the second quarter of the year--to be able to check off one of my "12s."  Now just 11 to go...........

A Free Speech PSA